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Conservative Feminist: My Rationale
Why This Feminist Refused to March: Topic 1--Women's Rights
Easy Life, Abused Wife
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Conservative Feminist: My Rationale

As many of you already know, my daughters and I are survivors of a near lethal domestic abuse situation.  This experience has influenced my belief system and thoughts about what it means to be a woman in this world and in my own home.

There is a widely held belief out there that feminist ideals belong to the leftist liberals, and that conservatives are the enemies of feminism.  I want to challenge that belief.  

I am a conservative feminist, and that is not an oxymoron.

I have first hand experience of what it is like to not have freedom.

Why This Feminist Refused to March: Topic 1--Women's Rights

Yesterday, millions of people marched for women's rights.  But it wasn't just about women's rights--it was about the rights of minorities, LGBT communities, anti-Trump, anti-Conservative, anti-Republican, and pretty much any other super divisive topic that has been polluting the media waves for the past two years (or longer).

I'm sick of it.

Our social culture is sick, and has been sick for a long time.  And the scary thing is, people are quick to point fingers and play the blame game; but NO ONE IS OFFERING UP REAL SOLUTIONS!

Easy Life, Abused Wife

What were you doing ten years ago? Where were you living? Did you have kids yet? Where were you working? Think about how much you have grown over the past ten years. Have you grown a lot? Not so much? Maybe things are a little tougher for you now than they were then?
Ten years ago on March 31, 2005 my ex-husband was arrested for domestic abuse and false imprisonment. Technically, I think his arrest was just after midnight on April 1; but you get the idea.

What would you do if your child care provider treated your children poorly?

Alexandra at age 5When my daughter Alexandra was about 7 she got in trouble while I was at work for not following directions.  Her caregiver locked her out of the house on the front porch and showed her pictures of missing children and told her, “This is what’s going to happen to you if you can’t behave in my house.” She begged to go home and the caregiver said, “OK, start walking!”  At the time I lived about 20 minutes away by car.  When the caregiver walked into another room Francesca (who was 5 at the time) unlocked the door and let Alexandra back in.

Solving social issues isn't black and white

In today’s American social culture there is a focus on right and wrong.  What direction does the moral compass point?  Where is the line between hate speech, freedom of speech, and censorship?  Our community leaders are tasked with creating laws and policy that allow for independent freedom without infringing on the rights of others, and lately that includes more and more social consideration than in previous generations.  

Many people have extreme beliefs of right and wrong.  While it is great to know exactly where you stand on certain issues, sometimes that stance can blind you to the issues on the other side of the argument.

NFL Players Behaving Badly: The Martin/Incognito Bullying Situation

So here are the facts as I understand them.  I'm sure more facts will come out as the situation unfolds, but I'm going to evaluate the situation based on these four facts:
1) Jonathan Martin walked out on NFL's Miami Dolphins because Richie Incognito bullied him.
2) Richie Incognito was suspended from the Miami Dolphins to allow for a full investigation.
3) Richie Incognito sent abusive, threatening and racist messages to Jonathan Martin last spring.
4) Miami Dolphin leadership encouraged Richie Incognito to "toughen up" Jonathan Martin.

Bully Prevention: ONE person can make a difference!

Originally Posted on Franny's House on Monday, October 08, 2012 4:18 PM

Many of Franny's House Bully Prevention Services are now available through Salice Family Services
*NOTE: The names are changed to protect the identities of all people involved.   

Do you think the problem of bullying is too big for one person to handle?  Here is a true story from right here in our own backyard, where the actions of one student may have saved lives.    

A few tips to prevent mass shootings

Originally Posted on the Franny's House Blog on Tuesday, December 18, 2012 4:27 AM

I have waited a few days before posting my thoughts on the Sandy Hook Elementary tragedy.  I wanted to wait for more complete details about what happened (and we are fooling ourselves if we think we have the whole story); and I wanted to wait and see what the media's spin would be on the tragedy, or what my Facebook/Twitter friends had to say about the issue. 

My first comment about the tragedy was posted on Facebook on the 14th: "Our prayers are with the families and children of Sandy Hook Elementary School.